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Shared Parenting: Benefits, Risks, and Consequences

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Benefits of Shared Parenting

  • Better emotional stability
  • Better school performance
  • Lower substance abuse
  • Lower teen pregnancy
  • Stronger relationships with both parents
  • Stronger connection to extended family (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins)
  • Lower behavioral problems
  • Lower risk of youth suicide
  • Lower incarceration rates
  • Children overwhelmingly prefer equal time with both parents

Risks and Consequences of Unequal Parenting Time

  • Higher conflict between parents
  • Increased alienation
  • Loss of extended family relationships
  • Higher instability in the child’s life
  • Greater financial strain on the minimized parent
  • Higher risk of manipulation or control
  • Increased court involvement
  • Higher likelihood of long-term emotional and behavioral issues

Michigan-Specific Consequences

• Michigan’s child support formula financially rewards unequal parenting time

• Temporary orders create long-term custody imbalance

• No-fault divorce punishes the parent who did not choose to leave the marriage

• The system incentivizes conflict, not cooperation

• Parents who leave first often gain immediate custody and financial advantage

• Children lose access to half their family when one parent is minimized

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